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fallingapartquick  

About fallingapartquick

I need help!  Not a whole lot but some.  I have had a really horrible two years.  It started with my son who is mentally retarted who had taken ill and required six operations to improve his health.  There were days when his life just fell apart along with mine.  I quit my job to be with him.  The very next year I was given the esteem opportunity to run my families company. With the poort economy it crumbled and fell.  Its a long long story anyway, my previous employer allowed me to return back to the company.  I returned making considerably less than before but I took it as I needed money and bad.

 Well, guess what the states disasterous budget has left me jobless, I'm looking so hard each and every single day.  But, nothing comes my way.  I have sold just about everything I have to live and now I can't pay my electric bill that is due for  shut off in four more days and will not have a phone to receive job leads. 

 Who knows what I can do other than find a ditch and lay down?  I'm pretty motivated and hopeful something will come my way but nothing.  I have a sister close by who has offered to let me live with her if I have too.  My rent is already one month passed due and in two more weeks will be due again.

Can someone provide me with direction?  Please...........Thanks....

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bubblesg4  

About bubblesg4

i need help paying my rent and utility bills,hi,my name is charles im 47 yrs. old have worked hard all my life.i have been working for this company for five yrs. now,about a year ago i started getting sick and went to dr. after dr. then specialist after specialiest until they threw there hands up and said they didnt know what was up.so i started searching the internet  and finally googled grindng "carbide health and saftey" and found out i have been breathing in heavy metals and carbide into my lungs ,cobalt,nickel,chromeium,diamond dust and all that is used to make the grinding wheels and carbide,to make a long story short work comp refused to pay the bills because a dr. was not the one that diagnosed what was wrong even though i had all the msds sheets from our suppliers and their study sheets for all matierals.i had 85-95% of all symptoms that they reported,well by then i didnt have any savings left,now i have been sued for all the outstanding medical bills they total about 7500.00 and my wages are being attached i have a daughter and grand daughter living with me we are about to end up on the streets,the really sick thing about all this is i still work for the same company where i got poisened because their are no other jobs out there,so im getting my wages garnished for being poisened by a very wealthy company that caused all this and im footing the bill that has made me sick where is the justice in all this,i even had to go to the food bank last monday to feed my family,if you can help i would be grateful for the rest of my life my rent is 500.00 per mo. my utilitys run about 185.00 if you can help thank you.if not thats ok to.even if you could help me with legal matters i want to stop these guys from doing this to anyone else,if you contact me i will show you all the proof plus more than i can write about in a 20 page letter.or if you would do a loan for me i would pay it back,although my credit isnt good its not bad either,i just dont have any. thank you

p.s. you know i now what it feels like to be a man that has been broken,

this is my email address if you want to verify any and all i have said 

bubblesg4@yahoo.com

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single dad1  

About single dad1

hi im in need of HELP with my bills, christmas utilities. Boss laid me off my girlfreind decided to go back home unployment is taking too long got three boys that wont have a christmas present from daddy this year. im getting  evicted i mist the eviction court date due to loosing my car and stress doing so many job searches. i need help. im not a criminal, i got two degrees in correction and security. im a really good guy but most important im a good daddy. but lately i havent had the greatest luck,but my boys deserve better i just need a blessing. thank u happy holidays to all.

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mztammy  

About mztammy

Im a single mother of 8 who lost her mother at 14. I had my first child @ 18 i was married @ 25 to a man i was with for 10yrs i was divorced a yr later. I have always worked and tryed to do my best but always found myself in bad relationships lookin for love so now i have 8 children and im 38. I have 3 children by a man that does drugs and is in prison. My 10yr old daughters dad was murderd 3 yrs ago and then i have a 17yr old and a 12yrold  that have the same dad that never comes around. Then my oldest that is 20 and my son that is 15 have the same dad witch is my ex-husband and i pay him child support($124) and whats funny is i get 5 dollors a month for 3 kids and 70 dollors for my daughter thats dad was killed and have to collect food stamps and still cant make it.  I got 3apts that im tryin to get together but im behind on my payments by 1000.00 because i have to decide do i pay a house payment or feed my kids, or do i pay a bill, or do i fix stuff that needs to be done? Im just so lost that i dnt know what to do. Every day i hate to go to the mail box cause im afraid that its gonna be a letter from the housing people saying that i got to move cause im behind on a house payment and if that happens i really dnt know what im going to do cause i have no place to go. I have no family but my kids. I try to hold on cause i know the Lord is good and he will make something happen for me.

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moondaizey  

About moondaizey

Hope to a better way
 
 
To Whom It May Concern;
This is my first attempt at some kind of funds for help in Hopeless Desparation...Please Read Before Disregarding.......Thank You So Much.
Hello my name is CoraLee. I am a 33 year old young woman who has a dire need in my life. I know of no where else to turn.
I was homeless for past five years of my life following a divorce and failed engagement.
My life has been shattered and unstable sue to this viscious cycle, for so long. During this process I have had many
difficulties and some of them have gotten to the point that I can not repair them on my own.
I have, due to lack of money stress and having to move around so often gotten many
teeth cavaties that became so severe with infections and bacterias and decay
and I came to a point in my life when I was able to get beyond my anxieties
and work a public job for money, I spent most every dime when I did at Dental Faucilities
to remove decay, refill cavities etc. I had gotten my hopes up so high believing that soon,
once the infections and decays were gone away that my confidence would return
and I would be able to function normally and serve as an employer in a public place
(to be honest horrible "bad" breath) which causes much discomfort and embarassment.
I am otherwise a healthy, and good looking girl, whom holds my age well.
My short term goal, with these letters going out are to 1. Re-establish health,
so that I can "stand" and get back to a working
life-style, affording with confidence to support myself and my "lost" little brother who,
for now, is on the other side of the states.
Also, to return to my 10 year old daughters life healthy and with success once again.
I have not always been a perfect "girl" in this world. I came from a hard background and family with not much support,
never asked for any money or help.
Did it on my own.
I DO NOT drink or use drugs.
My present problem is that I am just plain "stuck".
absolute hopelessness.
I am writing this in my last desperations and attempts to get myself out of a hole so big
and full of obsticles I can not solution
the bits alone aren't big enough to break through.
My only solution to this is money.
A bigger amount of money than I can just go out and get or make on my own.
I am reaching out with my last and only plan and hope through this.
And this is why I thought to reach out
at this time to you all.
Though I am honest and would never take this too far, or abuse others kindness.
.

I am just this so desperate, and lost that I do finally realize that I MUST ask for help.
I have been hopeless too long and can not see myself going on like this with no other way through
much longer.
 
The request for  help putting together funds for this money is for;
A.The root canals needed on my teeth and any other gum treatments, cleanings etc. to clear all infections and such.
(a minimum of $600-$700 per tooth (not to include caps or crowns)
B.Enough money for a used car or van and possibly a few months insurance, registration etc.
and my last wish:
C. one or two thousand dollars to restart my daughters bank account (she is ten);
She was born in 1999 at her home with a mid wife. Her home was lost four years ago.
I appreciate your Attention to this reading friend
My last alternative is a more affordable route, if enough money were raised for such are
Dentures, Dentures at 33 (very sad face) Especially with the pretty teeth that I could save instead.
Though You could not understand my desperations here. People stay away from me, a beautiful
inside and cute outside girl, because of my breath. Bad breath and ucky mouth is more ugly and
spiritually breaking than one could imagine.
PLEASE help with any rescources or ideas. Anything Will Help at this point in my despairations.
 
Again, with all my heart and soul
CoraLee Pitts
cpitts33@gmail.com
Genuinely and Sincerely
A heart of Good, CoraLee Pitts

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kris1977  

About kris1977

hi my name is kris i have run out of options and dont know where else to turn, my husband lost his job 3 months ago and the only income we have is mine. it is not enough to keep my family afloat. i have depleted our savings just trying to keep a roof over our heads and our car as it is my transportation to work.if anyone can help us it would mean more than you know, im not asking for a great sum just enough to get us through august into september while he countinues to seek work and while icountinue to seek a second full time job.it has hit the point where i cant even get my son the supplies he needs for school and will be reciving anouther shut off notice on the lights. im sorry for asking but i dont know what else to do i have been told the state of kansas cant helpme when i saw them,they said to go see a local charitie or two when i did they told me the cant help me either.

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angelbutt  

About angelbutt

RE: THIS FAMILY NEEDS YOUR HELP.   

I would like to introduce the Wilson Family, Michael, Dawn, Amy, David, Emalie and Madyson.  Michael is just recently home from a 15 month tour to Iraq.  This was their third tour in 4 years.  Dawn is a stay at home mother of 4 wonderful children, she suffers from an autoimmune disease.  She is always in pain, someday worse than others, but none the less she still takes care of her family.  Amy is a full time college student and works two jobs.  David is a high school student, he runs track and is very active with the Boy Scouts of America (he just received Life).  Emalie is a pre kindergarten student; she is an active little girl with none medicated ADHD. She loves horses and wants to ride them.  Madyson is a miracle baby; she was born at just 26 weeks gestation weighing in at 3lbs 2ozs and 15 inches long.  As with most premature babies Madyson suffers from some slight lung issues.  She is on 2 daily inhalers through the winter months and just one during spring, summer and fall.

 

Two years ago they moved into a beautiful, 4 bedroom farm house that sits on approx. 35 acres located at 409 S. Liberty Troy Illinois that is owned by a family member.  The property has recently gone up on the market and is set to go up for auction in August 2008; they desperately want to stay on this property but can not afford the asking price of $490,000 on their own.  The land is farmable and they would like to see it continued to be farmed for corn to produce cleaner burning ethenal.  They are willing to learn to farm the land for the price of allowing them to grow old on the property, they are very willing to continue to pay rent.  Dawn has spoke many times about if they could stay on the property in the house she wanted to utilize about 10 acres total of the property (including the land the house sits on) wanting to put in a great big garden, 1 or 2 dairy cows, and some chickens.  With the Economy the way that it is she wants her children to know that there are other ways to live, natural ways.  There is so much I could tell you, but you would have to hear it from her to understand where her heart is.  Being out here has given so much to their family.  They are much closer; Dawn and Madyson are much healthier.  When they first moved out here Dawn weighed 230 lbs and her pain was so bad we were lucky to get her out of bed three days a week and Madyson was always sick with breathing problems.  Now Dawn weighs 179 lbs and is very active with the children. She is in less pain and eating healthier, as are the children.  Amy, David, Emalie and Madyson are very happy here, they have a very healthy and rich relationship with each other and also with their Mother and Father.  This health and happiness, that so many long for, is about to be torn out from under them.  PLEASE DO NOT LET THAT HAPPEN.  If there is anyone out there that can help the Wilson’s please contact them at the following.

 

  PLEASE NOTE: AN EVICTION NOTICE AS GIVEN TERMINATION DATE IS JUNE 30 2008 
Email: wilsonfunk@sbcglobal.netPhone: 618-580-0609Address: 409 South Liberty Road              Troy Illinois 62294
 

Thank you,

Family of the Wilson’s

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dreamangel  

About dreamangel

I'm a singal mom with one child. I work a full time job and trying to make ends meet. I live in a apartment that is 2 bedrooms and one bath. I have a little dog. I pay 583.00 for a two bedroom apartment and I'm trying to get out of here but everyone wants to much. I need to stay in Talbot. My daughter is on 3 meds. for allergies and i stay sick alot because there is mold here and it is behind the walls. She is really allergick to mold. I cant stay here any more. Can someone help or know of someone who has a very large one bedroom apartment or a 2 bedroom that will let me have my dog and will only need 583.00 or less. But NOT a dump. In a good area for kids and familys.  Thank you signed last hope

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chriswh90  

A Family In Need Of Help..

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liligirl8204  

I need money very badly

I am a single mother of a three year old. Her father walked out on us and left me with all the bills to pay. I have fallen so far behind that I cant seem to make it out of this deep hole that I am in. I cant afford to lose everything that I have worked for my home and my job. I need someone to have a kind heart and help me out of a very bad situation. I have no one to turn to. Please help me!

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